Friday, 13 December 2013

DOA

DOA merupakan salah satu cara untuk mencapai ketenangan jiwa, sekaligus merupakan kunci hajat, tempat memperolehi harapan bagi orang-orang yang mempunyai keperluan, tempat mencari perlindungan bagi orang-orang yang terdesak, dan tempat bernafas lega bagi orang-orang yang memiliki keinginan.

     Sesungguhnya, Allah s.w.t. telah menyuruh manusia berdoa. Dia berfirman:

     Ertinya:
     "Berdoalah kepada Tuhanmu dengan rendah diri dan suara yang lembut."
(Al'A'raf: 55)

     Dia berfirman: Dan Tuhanmu berfirman:

     Ertinya:
     "Berdoalah kepada-Ku, nescaya akan Kuperkenankan bagimu."
(Ghafir: 60)

     Allah s.w.t. telah mencela kaum yang meninggalkan doa. Allah s.w.t. berfirman:

     Ertinya:
     "Dan sesungguhnya Kami telah pernah menimpakan azab kepada mereka, mereka tidak        tunduk kepada Tuhan mereka dan (juga) tidak memohon (kepada-Nya) dengan                      merendahkan diri."
(Al-Mukminun: 76)

     Sahal bin Abdullah berkata, "Allah menciptakan makhluk, setelah itu Dia menyatakan,'Bermunajatlah kepada-Ku. Jika itu tidak kamu lakukan, dengarkanlah dari-Ku. Jika tidak kamu lakukan, berdirilah di pintu-Ku. Jika itu juga tidak kamu lakukan, panjatkanlah segala keinginanmu kepada-Ku.'"

     Allah s.w.t. berfirman:

     Ertinya:
     "Atau siapa yang memperkenankan (doa) orang yang dalam kesusahan apabila dia berdoa      kepada-Nya dan yang menghilangkan kesusahan..."
(An-Naml: 63)

     Rasulullah s.a.w. telah mengkhabarkan berita gembira bagi orang yang telah diberi inspirasi untuk berdoa, bahawa dia termasuk orang yang dikasihi. Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda:

     "Siapa di antara kamu yang untuknya dibukakan pintu doa, nescaya dibukakan baginya           pintu-pintu rahmat. Allah tidak diminta sesuatu - yakni, yang lebih disukai-Nya -                   daripada diminta al-'afiyah (kesihatan yang baik)."
(HR. At-Tirmidzi dan al-Hakim)

     Rasulullah s.a.w. juga menyampaikan berita gembira bagi orang yang berdoa, bahawa dia akan dijaga dengan penjagaan Allah dan dilindungi dengan perlindungan istimewa yang berfungsi sebagai senjata untuk mengalahkan musuh dan membentengi diri.

     Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda:

     "Doa adalah senjata orang beriman, tiang agama, cahaya langit dan bumi."
(HR. Al-Hakim shahih al-isnad)

     Sabdanya lagi, "Janganlah kamu bersikap lemah dalam doa, kerana tidak seorang pun            yang celaka bersama doa."
(HR. Ibnu Hibban dan al-Hakim)

     Sabdanya lagi:
    
     "Mahukah kutunjukkan kepada kamu apa yang boleh menyelamatkan kamu dari musuh          kamu dan mencurahkan rezeki-rezeki kepada kamu? Berdoalah kepada Allah di malam          dan siang hari, kerana doa adalah senjata orang beriman."
(HR. Abu Ya'la)

     Rasulullah s.a.w. mengkhabarkan berita gembira bagi orang yang berdoa, bahawa doanya akan dikabulkan serta penghadapan dirinya kepada Allah akan diterima. Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda,

     "Sesungguhnya, Allah Pemalu lagi Maha Mulia, dia malu apabila ada seseorang                        menadahkan kedua-dua tangan kepada-Nya dan dia mengembalikannya dalam keadaan          hampa dan kecewa."
(HR. Abu Daud dan At-Tirmidz. Ibnu Majah dan Ibnu Hibban mengatakan bahawa ini hadith Hasan, bahkan shahih)

     Rasulullah s.a.w. juga bersabda:

     "Sesungguhnya, Allah Maha pengasih lagi Maha Mulia. Dia malu terhadap hamba-Nya yang      menadahkan kedua-dua tangan kepada-Nya tanpa Dia letakkan sesuatu kebaikan pun            padanya."
(HR. Al-Hakim shahih al-isnad)

      Rasulullah s.a.w. menjelaskan tentang bentuk-bentuk pengabulan doa. Semua bentuk pengabulan doa adalah baik, yang disegerakan mahu pun yang ditunda. Yang jelas, semua keadaan orang yang berdoa adalah baik, jika ia mengetahuinya.

     Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda:

     "Tidak ada seorang muslim pun bermohon dalam sesuatu doa yang tidak mengandungi unsur dosa dan permutusan tali persaudaraan, melainkan Allah memberinya salah satu di antara tiga, pengabulannya disegerakan atau ditangguhkan untuk dirinya di akhirat atau dihindarkan dari kejahatan yang setara." Lalu para sahabat bertanya, "Kalau begitu kami akan memperbanyakkan doa." Kemudian baginda memanggapi, "Sesungguhnya, Allah mempunyai lebih banyak - dari apa yang kamu minta."
(HR. Ahmad, al-Bazzar, Abu Ya'la dan al-Hakim shahih al-isnad)

     Kemudian Rasulullah s.a.w. menjelaskan perkara itu lebih terperinci, hingga masalah ini menjadi jelas bagi manusia, dan mereka pun boleh melihat doa yang mereka kira belum dikabulkan.

     Sabdanya, "Allah memanggil orang beriman pada hari kiamat, hingga Dia memberdirikannya di hadapan-Nya. Dia berkata, 'Hamba-Ku, Aku sungguh telah menyuruhmu agar berdoa kepada-Ku, dan Aku telah berjanji kepadamu bahawa Aku akan mengabulkan permohonanmu, maka adakah dulu Engkau berdoa kepada-Ku?' Hamba itu menjawab, 'Benar, wahai Tuhanku.' Tuhan berkata, 'Sesungguhnya, tidaklah kamu berdoa kepada-Ku dengan suatu doa melainkan Aku telah mengabulkannya. Tidakkah kamu pernah berdoa kepada-Ku pada hari ini dan itu kerana suatu kesusahan yang telah menimpamu agar Aku memberi kelapangan untukmu, maka Aku pun telah melakukannya untukmu?' Hamba menjawab, 'Benar, wahai Tuhanku.' Tuhan berkata, 'Sesungguhnya, Aku telah menyegerakannya untukmu di dunia. Dan kamu pun berdoa kepada-Ku pada hari ini dan itu kerana suatu kesusahan lain yang menimpamu agar Aku melapangkannya untukmu, tetapi kamu tidak melihat kelapangan.' Hamba menjawab, 'Benar, wahai Tuhanku.' Tuhan berkata, 'Sesungguhnya, Aku telah menyimpannya untukmu di syurga ini dan itu. Kamu berdoa kepada-Ku untuk suatu keinginan supaya Aku memenuhi untukmu pada hari ini dan itu, maka telah Kulakukan itu untukmu.' Hamba menjawab, 'Benar, wahai Tuhanku.' Tuhan berfirman, 'Sesungguhnya, Aku telah menyegerakannya untukmu di dunia. Dan kamu pun berdoa kepada-Ku untuk suatu keinginan yang lain supaya aku memenuhinya untukmu pada hari ini dan itu, tetapi kamu tidak melihat jawapannya.'"
   
     Hamba menjawab, "Benar, wahai Tuhan." Tuhan berfirman, "Sesungguhnya, Aku telah menyimpannya untukmu di syurga ini dan itu."

     Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda:

     "Allah tidak membiarkan suatu doa yang dimohon oleh hamba-Nya yang beriman                    melainkan Dia menjelaskannya kepadanya baik telah disegerakan di dunia mahu pun              ditangguhkannya dalam bentuk simpanan di akhirat, sehingga seorang beriman berkata        dalam keadaan itu, 'Sekiranya tidak ada sedikit pun dari doa yang disegerakan                        untukku...'"
(HR. Al-Hakim)

     Rasulullah s.a.w mengkhabarkan bahawa doa dapat menghalang datangnya sergapan pelbagai bencana dan meringankan takdir Allah dengan takdir Allah.

     Baginda bersabda:

     "Kewaspadaan tidak berguna bagi takdir, sedangkan doa bermanfaat terhadap ketentuan      yang telah terjadi dan yang belum terjadi. Suatu bencana akan turun, lalu doa                      menemuinya hingga kedua-duanya bergumul sampai hari kiamat."
(HR. Al-Bazzar, Thabrani dan al-Hakim shahih al-isnad)

     Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda:

     "Tidak ada yang dapat menolak ketentuan (qada') selain doa dan tidak ada yang dapat            memanjangkan umur selain berbakti."
(HR. Tirmidzi)

     Rasulullah s.a.w. juga bersabda:

     "Tidak ada sesuatu yang lebih mulia bagi Allah daripada doa dalam keadaan makmur."
(HR. Tirmidzi, Ibnu Majah, Ibnu Hibban dan Al-Hakim)

     Sejumlah hadith di atas dan hadith-hadith yang lainnya menerangkan bahawa doa adalah faktor paling kuat untuk mencegah datangnya perkara-perkara yang tidak disukai. Doa adalah musuh bencana, menghalang dan mengatasi, mencegah turunnya, menghilangkan dan meringankannya bila telah telah terjadi. Ada hadith yang mengisyaratkan bahawa doa mempunyai tiga kedudukan bersama bencana:

     Pertama, doa lebih kuat daripada bencana sehingga dapat mencegahnya.

     Kedua, doa lebih lemah daripada bencana sehingga bencana dapat mengalahkannya dan si hamba tersebut pun ditimpanya. Akan tetapi kadangkala doa dapat meringankannya, sekalipun keadaannya lemah.

     Ketiga, kedua-duanya saling beradu dan saling mendesak satu sama lain, tetapi pengaruhnya terlewat, entah kerana lemahnya doa itu - contohnya doa itu tidak disukai Allah kerana mengandungi permusuhan atau doanya itu lemah kerana bersumber dari hati yang lemah dan tidak bermohon secara bersungguh-sungguh - atau, kerana adanya penghalang dikabulkannya doa, seperti makanan yang haram, karat dosa-dosa yang menutup hati, dominasi kelalaian, keinginan yang hina, dan perkara sia-sia yang mengalahkannya.

     Diriwayatkan dalam Mustadrak al-Hakim, dari hadith Abu Hurairah, bahawa Nabi s.a.w. telah bersabda: "Berdoalah kepada Allah dengan keyakinan mendapat pengabulan. Dan ketahuilah bahawa Allah tidak menerima doa dari hati yang lalai dan leka."

     Doa merupakan ubat yang berfungsi melenyapkan penyakit, tetapi kelalaian hati terhadap Allah akan melemahkan keampuhannya. Begitu juga makanan yang haram. Makanan yang haram ini akan melumpuhkan dan melemahkan kekuatan doa. Di dalam Sahih Muslim diriwayatkan satu hadith dari Abu Hurairah yang mengatakan bahawa Rasulullah s.a.w. pernah bersabda, "Hai manusia, sesungguhnya Allah itu baik dan tidak menerima selain yang baik. Sesungguhnya, Allah telah memerintahkan oang-orang beriman dengan apa juga yang diperintahkan kepada para Rasul."

     Allah s.w.t. berfirman:

     Ertinya:
     "Hai Rasul-rasul, makanlah dari makanan yang baik-baik, dan kerjakanlah amal soleh.            Sesungguhnya Aku Maha Mengetahui apa yang kamu kerjakan."
(Al-Mukminun: 51)

     Allah s.w.t. berfirman:

     Ertinya:
     "(Hai orang-orang beriman), makanlah dari makanan yang baik-baik yang telah Kami              berikan kepadamu."

     Setelah itu beliau pun menceritakan seorang lelaki yang - telah jauh menempuhi perjalanan hingga rambutnya acak-acakan dan tubuhnya penuh debu. Dia menadah kedua-dua tangannya ke langit seraya berucap, "Ya Tuhanku... ya Tuhanku..." sementara makanannya haram, minumannya haram, pakaiannya haram dan diberi makan dengan yang haram, maka dari mana doanya boleh diperkenankan.

     Abdullah bin Imam Ahmad mengatakan cerita di dalam kitab az-Zuhd karya ayahnya, "Pada suatu ketika, Bani Israel dilanda bencana, maka mereka pun keluar menuju ke satu tempat. Lalu Allah s.w.t. menyampaikan wahyu kepada Nabi mereka untuk memberitahu, 'Sesungguhnya, kamu keluar menuju satu tempat dengan tubuh yang berlumuran najis, kamu menadahkan tangan kepada-Ku, sedangkan dengan tangan-tangan itu kamu telah menumpahkan darah, memenuhi rumah-rumah kamu dengan harta benda yang haram. Sekarang, di saat murka-Ku terhadap kamu memuncak, kamu tidak akan mendapat tambahan dari-Ku selain jarak yang semakin jauh.'"

     Abu Zar berkata: "Cukuplah doa bersama perbuatan baik, seperti makan bersama garam."




P/S: Petikan daripada buku 'DOA-DOA PARA NABI & WALI', ditulis oleh 'SAYYID MUHAMMAD BIN 'ALAWI AL-MALIKI' dan diterbitkan oleh 'DR. MOHD. PUZHI BIN USOP'. 

Harap dapat berkongsi dengan sahabat-sahabat semua! In Shaa Allah! Waallahualam :)





KATA-KATA INDAH ISLAM

1) Yang besar itu nafsu. Yang singkat itu waktu. Yang dekat itu kematian. Yang susah itu keikhlasan. Yang dijauhi itu kemalasan. Yang cepat itu adalah marah. Yang berat itu ialah amanah. Yang sukar itu kesabaran. Yang lupa itu kesyukuran. Yang merosak amal itu mengumpat. Yang dinanti Allah SWT itu ialah taubat.

2) Kecantikan hakiki bukan dari wajah, melainkan cahaya yang keluar dari hati.

3) Jangan resah andai ada yang membencimu kerana masih ramai yang mencintaimu di dunia tetapi resahlah andai Allah membencimu kerana tiada lagi yang mencintaimu di akhirat.

4) Jika hari ini aku terlalu gembira, sedarkah aku dengan amaran Allah SWT. Jika aku bersedih tanpa kata, pujuklah aku dengan tarbiyah pencipta. Jika aku lemah tak berdaya, ingatkanlah aku dengan kehebatan Syurga. Jika antara kita ada tembok pemisah, ajaklah aku meleraikannya segera. Jika pernah hatimu tersebut disebabkan daku, luahkanlah agar aku dapat mengubah diriku. Ukhuwah kita untuk selamanya.

5) Tiada ungkapan perpisahaan dalam persahabatan walaupun maut menjadi noktahnya kerana seorang SAHABAT itu terlalu istimewa dalam doa saudarnya yang lain biarpun tanpa bayangnya.

6) SENYUM dan ucapkan ALHAMDULILLAH kerana ALLAH masih izinkan kita bersama mereka yang kita SAYANG.

7) Ya Allah, kuyakin bahwa takdir-Mu lebih baik dari semua yang aku inginkan, berikan aku kekuatan untuk memahami ini sebagai anugerah dari-Mu.

8) Cinta dan kasih sayang manusia hanyalah setitis jika dibandingkan dengan selautan cinta dan kasih sayang Allah. Sekiranya engkau kehilangan yang setitis itu, ia tidak akan menjejaskan kehidupanmu selagi yang selautan itu masih engkau miliki.

9) Orang yang selalu menyediakan dirinya untuk menerima nasihat maka dirinya akan mendapat penjagaan daripada Allah; orang yang membolehkan dirinya insaf dan sabar menerima nasihat orang lain, tandanya ia akan menerima kemuliaan daripada Allah; berasa hina diri dalam ibadat dan bertaat kepada Allah Taala untuk menimbulkan rasa lebih dekat kepada-Nya dan lebih menghindarkan diri daripada nasihat. (NASIHAT LUKMANUL HAKIM KEPADA ANAKNYA)

10) JADIKANLAH ALLAH SEBAGAI KEKASIH SEJATI DALAM HIDUPMU. "Orang-orang yang beriman sangat mencintai Allah." (QS. al-Baqarah : 165)

11) AKU RELA ALLAH TUHANKU, AKU RELA ISLAM AGAMAKU DAN AKU RELA NABI MUHAMMAD SAW RASUL UTUSAN ALLAH. YA ALLAH, TAMBAHKANLAH ILMUKU DAN PERTINGGIKANLAH KECERDASANKU.

12) Rasulullah bersabda bermaksud: "Berbahagialah hidup di dunia bagi orang yang mengumpul kebajikan untuk bekalan hari akhiratnya, sehingga dia memperoleh reda Tuhannya. Dan celakalah hidup di dunia, hingga dia terhalang daripada (mengerjakan) amalan untuk akhiratnya, dan lalai untuk memperoleh reda Tuhannya." -- Hadis riwayat al-Hakim

13) Hargai... "Malam itu panjang... jangan dipendekkan dengan banyak tidur... siang itu terang... jangan digelapkan dengan dosa..."

14) Ilmu sedikit yang sentiasa di amalkan lebih baik dari ilmu banyak tetapi tidak pernah diamalkan. Kalau kita rasa susah, fikir-fikirkanlah bahawa ada lagi orang yang lebih susah dari kita dan jika kita senang, ingatlah, ada lagi orang yang lebih senang dari kita. Kalau kita sentiasa berasa seronok dalam membuat kebajikan berbahagialah kita sebab itu tandanya Allah telah menerima amalan kebajikan kita. (Yang Berbahagia TG Ustaz Haron Din)

15) Beribadahlah seakan-akan engkau akan mati esok pagi dan bekerjalah seakan-akan engkau akan hidup selamanya.

16) Kebahagiaan tidak selamanya abadi. Kesedihan tidak selamanya abadi. Kemudahan tidak selamanya abadi. Kesulitan juga tidak selamanya abadi. Roda kehidupan terus berputar. Yang ada di atas akan turun kebawah. Begitu juga sebaliknya. Kesulitan adalah harga untuk membeli kemudahan. Selepas kesulitan pasti ada kemudahan. Rasulullah SAW mengatakan: "Kesulitan tidak akan mengalahkan kemudahan dua kali." Seperti juga yang telah dijanjikan Allah SWT dalam QS. Al-insyirah : 5-6 "Maka sesungguhnya bersama kesulitan itu ada kemudahan. Sesungguhnya bersama kesulitan itu ada kemudahan."

17) "Ya Allah sebagaimana Engkau telah cantikkan rupaku, maka cantikkanlah juga akhlakku."(HR Ahmad & Ibn Hibban)

18) Tiga hal adalah kemuliaan dunia dan akhirat: memaafkan orang yang menzalimimu, menyambung tali persaudaraan terhadap orang yang memutuskannya, dan sabar ketika engkau diperlakukan sebagai orang bodoh.

19) Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moments, thank God.

20) Nasihat untuk Adam dan Hawa: 1. Jangan tinggal solat, 'qada'' walaupun terbangun lewat. 2. Tutup aurat dengan sempurna, baju takmau ketat-ketat... jarang-jarang... nipis-nipis... tudung tu biarlah menutupi dada... longgar-longgarkan seluar tu... labuhkan juga baju anda~~!! lelaki pun sama... kepala lutut tu aurat~!! 3. Solat dhuha & tahajjud, jadikan solat sunat ini sebagai amalan harian... tak rugi pun kalau buat... untung lagi ada...~!! p/s :: kalau amalkan selama 40 hari berturut-turut... insyaALLAH kita akan berasa janggal jika meninggalkannya... 3 perkara ini secara tidak langsung dapat mengubah hidup kita ke arah yang lebih baik dan lebih mendekati Yang Maha Esa.

 

Tuesday, 1 January 2013

QUOTES ABOUT LIFE PART 10

271 ) The truth is , unless you let go , unless you forgive yourself , unless you forgive the situation , unless you realize that the situation is over , you can move forward . - Steve Maraboli -
272 ) There is a saying in Tibetan , 'Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength .' No matter what sort of difficulties , how painful experiences is , if we lose our hope , that's our real disaster . - Dalai Lama XIV -
273 ) - لا أخاف الموت ..أخاف أن أموت قبل أن أحيا  - أحمد خالد توفيق
274 ) Suffering has been stronger than all other teaching , and has taught me to understand what your heart used to be . I have been bent and broken , but - I hope - into a better shape . - Charles Dickens -
275 ) I live in my own little world . But it's okay , they know me here . - Lauren Myracle -
276 ) Accept what life offers you and try to drink from every cup . All wines should be tasted , some should only be sipped , but with others , drink the whole bottle . - Paulo Coelho -
277 ) Nothing in life is to be feared , it is only to be understood . Now is the time to understand more , so that we may fear less . - Marie Curie -
278 ) Our true friends are those who are with us when the good things happen . They cheer us on and are pleased by our triumphs . False friends only appear at difficult times , with their sad , supportive faces , when , in fact , our suffering is serving to console them for their miserable lives . - Paulo Coelho -
279 ) Its better to burn out than fade away . - Kurt Cobain -
280 ) I walked over to the hill where we used to go and sled . There were a lot of little kids there . I watched them flying . Doing jumps and having races . And I thought that all kids are going to grow up someday . And all of those little kids are going to do the things that we do . And they will all kiss someone someday . But for now , sledding is enough . I think it would be great if sledding will always enough , but it isn't . - Stephen Chbosky -

281 ) Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you . Be afraid of the friends who flatter you . - Dale Carnegie -
282 ) Even death has a heart . - Markus Zusak -
283 ) You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself , and that person is not to be found anywhere . You , yourself , as much as anybody in the entire universe , deserve your love and affection . - Siddhartha Gautama Buddha -
284 ) Parents were the only ones obligated to love you , from the rest of the world you had to earn it . - Ann Brashares -
285 ) People are like stained - glass windows . They sparkle and shine when the sun is out , but when the darkness sets in , their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within . - Elisabeth Kubler - Ross -
286 ) When the goings get weird , the weird turn professional . - Hunter S. Thompson -
287 ) Eventually , everything goes away . - Elizabeth Gilbert -
288 ) Our lives are defined by opportunities , even the ones we miss . - Eric Roth -
289 ) When two people are under the influence of the most violent , most insane , most delusive , and most transient of passions , they are required to swear that they will remain in that excited , abnormal , and exhausting condition continuously until death to them part . - George Bernard Shaw -
290 ) Writers fish for the right words like fishermen fish for , um , whatever those aquatic features with fins and gills are called . - Jarod Kintz -

291 ) To perceive is to suffer . - Aristotle -
292 ) Don't be too timid and squeamish about your actions . All life is an experiment . The more experiments you make the better . - Ralph Waldo Emerson -
293 ) Often , it's not about becoming a new person , but becoming the person you were meant to be , and already are , but don't know how to be . - Heath L. Buckmaster -
294 ) I feel that life is divided into the horrible and the miserable . That's the two categories . The horrible are like , I don't know , terminal cases , you know , and blind people , crippled . I don't know how they get through life . It's amazing to me . And the miserable is everyone else . So you should be thankful that you're miserable , because that's very lucky , to be miserable . - Woody Allen -
295 ) You can't just plan a moment when things get back on track , just as you can't plan the moment you lose your way in the first place . - Sarah Dessen -
296 ) The whole of life is just like watching a film . Only it's as though you always get in ten minutes after the big picture has started . And no - one will tell you the plot , so you have to work it out all yourself from the clues . - Terry Pratchett -
297 ) The future is something which everyone reaches at the rate of sixty minutes an hour , whatever he does , whoever he is . - C. S. Lewis -
298 ) We'd met at a carefree time , a moment full of promise , in its place now were the harsh lessons of the real world . - Nicholas Sparks -
299 ) Most of the basic material a writer works with is acquired before the age of fifteen . - Willa Cather -
300 ) Life is worth living as long as there's a laugh in it . - L. M. Montgomery -

Tuesday, 26 June 2012

QUOTES ABOUT LIFE PART 9

241 ) It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy . It is what you think about it . - Dale Carnegie -
242 ) Please believe that things are good with me , and even when they're not , they will be soon enough . And I will always believe the same about you . - Stephen Chbosky -
243 ) The mouth is made for communication , and nothing is more articulate than a kiss . - Jarod Kintz -
244 ) Never be bullied into silence . Never allow yourself to be made a victim . Accept no one's definition of your life , but define yourself . - Harvey Fierstein -
245 ) If you end up with a boring miserable life because you listened to your mom , your dad , your teacher , your priest , or some guy on television telling you how to do your shit , then you deserve it . - Frank Zappa -
246 ) When we least expect it , life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change , at such a moment , there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not yet ready . The challenge will not wait . Life does not look back . A week is more that enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny . - Paulo Coelho -
247 ) Be thankful for what you have , you'll end up having more . If you concentrate on what you don't have , you will never , ever have enough . - Oprah Winfrey -
248 ) You yourself , as much as anybody in the entire universe , deserve your love and affection . - Siddhartha Gautama Buddha -
249 ) The purpose of life is to live it , to taste experience to the utmost , to reach our eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience . - Eleanor Roosevelt -
250 ) Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all . - Helen Keller -

251 ) Sometimes you have to kind of die inside in order to rise from your own ashes and believe in yourself and love yourself to become a new person . - Gerard Way -
252 ) If you stay , I'll do whatever you want . I'll quit the band , go with you to New York . But if you need me to go away , I'll do that , too . I was talking to Liz and she said maybe coming back to your old life would be too painful , that maybe it'd be easier for you to erase us . And that would suck , but I'd do it . I can lose you like that if I don't lose you today . I'll let you go . If you stay . - Gayle Forman -
253 ) When you're lost in those woods , it sometimes takes you a while to realize that you are lost . For the longest time , you can convince yourself that you've just wandered off the path , that you'll find your way back to the trailhead any moment now . Then night falls again and again , and you still have no idea where you are , and it's time to admit that you have bewildered yourself so far off the path that you don't even know from which direction the sun rises anymore . - Elizabeth Gilbert -
254 ) How nice -- to feel nothing , and still get full credit for being alive . - Kurt Vonnegut -
255 ) That what I need to survive is not Gale's fire , kindled with rage and hatred . I have plenty of fire myself . What I need is the dandelion in the spring . The bright yellow that means rebirth instead of destruction . The promise that life can go on , no matter how bad our losses . That it can be good again . And only Peeta can give me that . - Suzanne Collins -
256 ) One lives in the hope of becoming a memory . - Antonio Porchia -
257 ) Almost nobody dances sober , unless they happen to be insane . - H. P. Lovecraft -
258 ) When a girl says she wants to be friends with benefits , I always ask if that includes dental insurances . - Jarod Kintz -
259 ) There is no good and evil , there is only power and those too weak to seek it . - J. K. Rowling -
260 ) Develop an interest in life as you see it , the people , things , literature , music - the world is so rich , simply throbbing with rich treasures , beautiful souls and interesting people . Forget yourself . - Henry Miller -

261 ) A pain stabbed my heart , as it did every time I saw a girl I loved who was going the opposite direction in this too big - world . - Jack Kerouac -
262 ) Oh the places you'll go ! There is fun to be done ! There are points to be scored . There are games to be won . And the magical things you can do with the ball will make you the winning - est winner of all . - Dr. Seuss -
263 ) Most men lead live of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them . - Henry David Thoreau -
264 ) What would come , would come ... and you would have to meet it , when it did . - J. K. Rowling -
265 ) Our lives are not as limited as we think they are , the world is a wonderfully weird place , consensual reality is significantly flawed , no institution can be trusted , but love does work , all things are possible , and we all could be happy and fulfilled if we only had the guts to be truly free and the wisdom to shrink our egos and quit taking ourselves so damn seriously . - Tom Robbins -
266 ) The best of us must sometimes eat our words . - J. K. Rowling -
267 ) You were given life , it is your duty ( and also you entitlement as a human being ) to find something beautiful within life , no matter how slight . - Elizabeth Gilbert -
268 ) In all of living , have much fun and laughter . Life is to be enjoyed , not just endured . - Gordon B. Hinckley -
269 ) 'I don't get it ,' Caroline said , bemused . 'She's the only one with wings . Why is that ?' There were so many questions in life . You couldn't ever have all the answers . But I knew this one . 'It's so she can fly ,' I said . Then I started to run . - Sarah Dessen -
270 ) We should count time by heart - throbs . He most lives . Who thinks most , feels noblest , acts the best . - Philip James Bailey -


QUOTES ABOUT LIFE PART 8

211 ) You live but once , you might as well be amusing . - Coco Chanel -
212 ) We are taught you must blame your father , your sisters , your brothers , the school , the teachers , but never blame yourself . It's never your fault . But it's always your fault , because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change . - Katharine Hepburn -
213 ) Live simply so others may simply live . - Mother Teresa -
214 )   -  أحمد خالد توفيق - إن المرأة تحب رجلها ليس لأنه أقوى الرجال، و لا أوسمهم، و لا أغناهم، بل لأنه هو.. بضعفه و قوته.. و الحب ليس - إستعراض قوة لكنه طاقة عطاء دافئة مستمرة
215 ) We cannot change the cards we are dealt , just how we play the hand . - Randy Pausch -
216 ) The biggest adventure you can ever take is to live the life of your dreams . - Oprah Winfrey -
217 ) The real things haven't changed . It is still best to be honest and truthful , to make the most of what we have , to be happy with simple pleasures , and have courage when things go wrong . - Laura Ingalls Wilder -
218 ) When you consider things like the stars , our affairs don't seem to matter very much , do they ? - Virginia Woolf -
219 ) I want my kids to have the things in life that I never had when I was growing up . Things like beards and chest hair . - Jarod Kintz -
220 ) I can tell if two people are in love by how they hold each other's hands , and how thick their sanitation gloves are . - Jarod Kintz -


221 ) I don't want to achieve immortality through my work . I want to achieve immortality through not dying . - Woody Allen -
222 ) Paradoxically through it may seem , it is none the less true that life imitates art far more that art imitates life . - Oscar Wilde -
223 ) I can choose either to be a victim of the world or an adventurer in search of treasure . It's all a question of how I view my life . - Paulo Coelho -
224 ) Better to die fighting for freedom then be a prisoner all the days of your life . - Bob Marley -
225 ) Why do they always teach us that it's easy and evil to do what we want and that we need discipline to restrain ourselves ? It's the hardest thing in the world , to do what we want . And it takes the greatest kind of courage . I mean , what we really want . - Ayn Rand -
226 ) I walk around the school hallways and look at the people . I look at the teachers and wonder why they're here . If they like their jobs . Or us . And I wonder how smart they were when they were fifteen . Not in a mean way . In a curious way . It's like looking at all the students and wondering who's had their heart broken that day , and how they are able to cope with having three quizzes and a book report due on top of that . Or wondering who did the heart breaking . And wondering why . - Stephen Chbosky -
227 ) Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue . Realize the strength , move on . - Henry Rollins -
228 ) ' This must be Thursday , ' said Arthur to himself , sinking low over his beer . ' I never could get the hang of Thursday .' - Douglas Adams -
229 ) Make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing , or been too hesitant to attempt . So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security , conformity , and conservation , all of which may appear to give on peace of mind , but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man and a secure future . The very basic core of a man's living spirit is his passion for adventure . They joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences , and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon , for each day to have a new and different sun . If you want to get more out of life , you must lose you inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy . But once you become unaccustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty . - Jon Krakauer -
230 ) Death is peaceful , life is harder . - Stephenie Mayer -



231 ) There are times to stay put , and what you want will come to you , and there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself . - Lemony Snicket -
232 ) The aim of life is to live , and to live means to be aware , joyously , drunkenly , serenely , divinely aware . - Henry Miller -
233 ) Lost opportunities , lost possibilities , feelings we can never get back . That's part of what it means to be alive . But inside our heads , at least that's where I imagine it , there's a little room where we store those memories . A room like the stacks in this library . And to understand the working of our own heart we have to keep on making new reference cards . We have to dust things off every once in awhile , let in fresh air , change the water in the flower vases . In other words , you'll live forever in your own private library . - Haruki Murakami - 
234 ) ' Dear God , ' she prayed , ' Let me be something every minute of every hour of my life . Let me be gay , let me be sad . Let me be cold , let me be warm . Let me be hungry , have too much to eat . Let me be ragged or well dressed . Let me be sincere , be deceitful . Let me be truthful , let me be a liar . Let me be honorable and let me sin . Only let me be something every blessed minute . And when I sleep , let me dream all the time so that not one little piece of living is ever lost . ' - Betty Smith -
235 ) Who says life is fair , where is that written ? - William Goldman -
236 ) Your life is an occasion . Rise to it . - Suzanne Weyn -
237 ) Life was meant to be lived , and curiosity must be kept alive . One must never , for whatever reason , turn his back on life . - Eleanor Roosevelt -
238 ) Never be bullied into silence . Never allow yourself to be made a victim . Accept no one's definition of your life , but define yourself . - Harvey Fierstein -
239 ) That what I need to survive is not Gale's fire , kindled with rage and hatred . I have plenty of fire myself . What I need is the dandelion in the spring . The brightly yellow that means rebirth instead of destruction . The promise that life can go on , no matter how bad our losses . That it can be good again . And only Peeta can give me that . - Suzanne Collins -
240 ) Earth's crammed with heaven . But only he who sees , take off his shoes . - Elizabeth Barrett Browning -

Sunday, 24 June 2012

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HUZAIRI :)

Huzai , HAPPY BIRTHDAY , SAYANG :') adik , wlau pun adk tkde dkt dunia ni , akak tetap dtg smbut birthday adik tauu . akak syg adk sngtt-2 . akak selalu tringt , wktu kenangan kita dekat hspital . akak tak kisah dik , akak tak kisah klau akak tak blik rumah pun , akak snggup jga adik :) bgi akak , adik nyawa akak tauu . adk , akak syggg sngtt adik . akak nak share dngn adik tau , akak dpt 6A 2B hari tuu . adk suke tk ? adik suke kann ? akak thu , msti adk nmpk dekt atas nnti kan ? akak tahuuu . tpi , lepass adik tkde , akak tkde kawan nak share bnde sronok-2 nii dngn Huzai . spe lgi akak nak share ? bile akak nak nynyi lgu yang akak reka untuk adk tu ? adk ingt tk lguu tu ? best kan ? akak ingt lgii tauuu . 


Huzai suke mkan nasi goreng kan ? bile akak makan , msti akak teringt adik . haaa , roti pun same :D hehe , akak rindduuu lah dngn adik . adik rndu akak tk ? hehe . Huzai , adik suke dngr lagu Girls Generation kan ? lagu , Gee Gee ? haha , lgi , Jangan Bilang Cinta , bnyk lgii lahh . Huzai suke main kotak kan ? haha , Huzai suke kan ambik kotak make up mama dekt bilik , haha . Lpas tu , Huzai suke main sorok-2 dlam almari . ada ke Huzai ajk akak sekali ? apa lahh adik ni ! hehe , ea , main kejar-2 dngn Huzai . Best kan ? mainnn sma-2 . mandi kolam , naik gelongsor . Best kan syg ? hehe ! Huzai suke kan main buaian ? akak selalu main dngn Huzai . akak lmpat , Huzai suke gelak ya ?


Tapi , akak sedihh baju spongebob yng akak beli dngn Kak Farah tk sempat adik pkai . Baju tu spasang dngn akak tauu , akak dah jnji dah nk pkai sama dngn Huzai dan kita ambik gmbar , lpas tu , masuk facebook kan ? tpi , tk smpat . bnyk baju rya Huzai dah beli tpi Huzai tk smpat pkai punn . bju melayu yng raya pnye punn ade lgi dlam almari tauu , mama tak kasi usik . mama rnduu Huzai , akak pun rnduu jgak . rndu sngtt . haaaa , Huzai ingt tk kite lepak-2 dkt hspital hari tuu ? adk , akak tk kisah pun ketinggalan plajaran , asalkan adk kakak tk sorng-2 . akak tngah study , akak bca , Huzai dngr . dah macam mainn ckgu-2 dahh kan ? hehe . lpas tu , wktu akak blik Melaka and terus dtg lawat adik dkt hspital , Huzai snyummm , Huzai ketawa , Huzai happy erk akak blik ? akak pun happy jgak dpt jmpe adk akak yng comel nii . akak tk pernah rse jemu mandi , cebok , bgi adk mkan ubat , makanan , minumm adk smuaaa . malah , akak rsa sronok sbb bntu sygg .


adk , akak nak mntak maaf sbb tk smpat nk bawak adk jlan-2 time raya . tpi , skurang-kurangnya akak bngga sbb Allah bgi peluang akak nak tgk adk hmbuskan nafas terakhir dkt sbelah akak :') akak bngga jgak sbb akak orng yang terakhir dngn adk , akak yng terakhir suapkan adk makan , bgi adk mkan ubat , mndikan adik , slinkan adk bajuu , bedak-2 kan adikk . akak syg adik :') akak ingt lgi lgu "give me five , give me ten , give me penampor , give me penumbuk , give me ciuman " hahaha , adik ikut aje ckp kakak erk ? akak rnduu nk bngon awal-2 pukul 4 pgi , bgi adk mkan . akak rnduuu smua ape yng ade dkt adik :')


N / F : ADIK , WLAUPUN ADIK TKDE DI SISI AKAK SEKRNG , AKAK NK ADIK THU , AKAK SYGG SNGTT DNGN ADIK . ADIK TETAP DKT HATI AKAK . AKAK TAHU , ADIK SENTIASA ADA DI SISI KAKAK KAN . SEKURANG-KURANGNYA , AKAK ADA MIMPI ADIK CAKAP ADIK SYG AKAK , ADIK TK NK TGK AKAK NNGISSS . AKAK PUN SYG ADIK , SYGG SNGTT :') AKAK AKAN SENTIASA INGT TARIKH 24 JUN 2006 , TARIKH LAHIR ADIK . STIAP TAHUN AKAK SMBUT TAUU UNTUK ADIK . AKAK SAYANG NAZREEN HUZAIRI :') I LOVE YOU :) SAYANG ADIK SANGAT-SANGAT :')

Wednesday, 20 June 2012

QUOTES ABOUT LIFE PART 7

181 ) Life isn't fair , it's just fairer than death , that's all . - William Goldman -
182 ) The more you know who you are , and what you want , the less you let things upset you . - Stephanie Perkins -
183 ) He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how . - Friedrich Nietzsche -
184 ) I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong . I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girl . I believe that tomorrow is another day , and I believe in miracles . - Audrey Hepburn -
185 ) I think I've discovered the secret of life , you just hang around until you get used to it . - Charles M. Schulz -
186 ) No sympathy for the devil , keep that in mind . But the ticket , take the ride , and if it occasionally gets a little heavier than what you had in mind , well , maybe chalk it off to forced conscious expansion . Tune it , freak out , get beaten . - Hunter S. Thompson -
187 ) I'm sorry for my inability to let unimportant things go , for my inability to hold on to the important things . - Jonathan Safran Foer -
188 ) All parents damage their children . It cannot be help . Youth , like pristine glass , absorbs the prints of its handlers . Some parents smudge others crack , a few shatter childhoods completely into jagged little pieces , beyond repair . - Mitch Albom -
189 ) There will come a time when all of us are dead . All of us . There will come a time when there are no human beings remaining to remember that anyone ever existed or that our species ever did anything . There will be no one left to remember Aristotle or Cleopatra , let alone you . Everything that we did and built and wrote and though and discovered will be forgotten and all of this will have been for naught . Maybe that time is coming soon and maybe it is millions of years away , but even if we survive the collapse of our sun , we will not survive forever . There was time before organisms experienced consciousness , and there will be time after . And if the inevitability of human oblivion worries you , I encourage you to ignore it . God knows that's what everyone else does . - John Green -
190 ) ' I meant , ' said Ipslore bitterly . ' What is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile ? ' . Death thought about it . CATS , he said eventually . CATS ARE NICE . - Terry Pratchett -




191 ) Those who are willing to be vulnerable move among mysteries . - Theodore Roethke -
192 ) I could die for you . But I couldn't , and wouldn't , live for you . - Ayn Rand -
193 ) There is only one sin , and that is theft , when you tell a lie you steal someones right to the truth . - Khaled Hosseini -
194 ) Life is too short , or too long , for me to allow myself the luxury of living it so badly . - Paulo Coelho -
195 ) It's not the men in your life that matters , it's the life in your men . - Mae West -
196 ) Throw your dreams into space like a kite , and you do not know what it will bring back , a new life , a new friend , a new love , a new country . - Anais Nin -
197 ) ' We could do it , you know ' . ' What ? ' . ' Leave the district . Run off . Live in the woods . You and I , we could make it . - Suzanne Collins -
198 ) My one regret in life is that I am not someone else . - Woody Allen -
199 ) To fear love is to fear life , and those who fear life are already 3-parts death . - Bertrand Russell -
200 ) One always has a better book in one's mind than one can manage to get onto paper . - Michael Cunningham -




201 ) To be , or not to be , that is the question . Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer . The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune , or to take arms against a sea for troubles , and by opposing end them ? To die , to sleep , no more , and by a sleep to say we end . The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks . The flesh is heir to , 'tis a consummation . Devoutly to be wish'd . To die , to sleep , to sleep , perchance to dream , ay , there's the rub . For in that sleep of death what dreams may come . When we have shuffled of this mortal coil , must give us pause , there's the respect . That makes calamity of so long life , for who would bear the whips and scorns of time , the oppressor's wrong , the proud man's contumely , the pangs of despised love , the law's delay , the insolence of office and the spurns . That patient merit of the unworthy takes , when he himself might his quietus make , with a bare bodkin ? Who would fardels bear , to grunt and sweat under a weary life , but that the dread of something after death , the undiscover'd country from whose bourn . No traveller returns , puzzles the will and make us rather bear those ills we have , than fly to others that we know not of ? Thus conscience does make cowards of us all , and thus the native hue of resolution , is sicklied o'er with the pale cast of thought , and enterprises of great pith and moment , with this regard their currents turn awry , and lose the name of action . Soft you now ! The fair Ophelia ! Nymph , in thy orisons . Be all my sins remember'd ! - William Shakespeare -
202 ) Nobody likes to being alone that much . I don't go out of my way to make friends , that's all . It just leads to disappointment . - Haruki Murakami -
203 ) Some people have lives , some people have music . - John Green -
204 ) It is not the length of life , but the depth . - Ralph Waldo Emerson -
205 ) Life has become immeasurably better since I have been forced to stop taking it seriously . - Hunter S. Thompson -
206 ) We'd start slow , the way we always did , because the run , and the game , could go on for awhile . Maybe even forever . That was the thing . You just never knew . Forever was so many different things . It was always changing , it was what everything was really all about . It was twenty minutes , or a hundred years , or just this instant , or any instant I wish would last and last . But there was only one truth about forever that really mattered , and that was this , it was happening . Right then , as I ran with Wes into that bright sun , and every moment afterwards . Look , there . Now . Now . Now . - Sarah Dessen -
207 ) If you love somebody , let them go , for if they return , they were always yours . If there don't , they never were . - Khalil Gibran -
208 ) When you can live forever what do you live for ? - Stephenie Meyer -
209 )If there's a thing I've learned in my life it's to not be afraid of the responsibility that comes with caring for other people . What we do for love , those things endure . Even if the people you do them for don't . - Cassandra Clare -
210 ) One of the few good things about modern times . If you die horribly on television , you will not have died in vain . You will have entertained us . - Kurt Vonnegut -